Don’t be fooled and don’t be foolish. Relationships that are the victim of betrayal, infidelity, and disloyalty almost always end in failure. Those who have been successfully married for years and years know this to be true. Don’t be misled by those who suggest otherwise.
Let’s hope that this “age of infidelity” will soon pass and that couples who have made the vow to “love and honor in sickness and in health until death do us part” will hold true to the meaning of this constant refrain of the successful marriages we have studied around the world. There is much to learn from a successful marriage!
Read more about The Age of Infidelity
By America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts
Dr. Charles D. Schmitz and Dr. Elizabeth A. Schmitz
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Unfortunately, most people who have been cheated on, are 1000% AWARE! Likewise, there is no such thing of blindsiding sane, mentality stable people. Sometime we select to put on our blinder because we are simply not ready to deal with the truth. But, fortunately, we all learned as children that hiding from a problem never solves anything. Prayer, honesty, open communication, forgiveness, respect and addressing ALL the Core Issues is the only real solution. Since communication is 80% non-verbal, almost every person I have ever spoken to who has been cheated on, knew, who, what, when, where, why and even sometimes how. All this non-sense of not knowing is just foolishness. Body language is almost involuntary, so everything a person really needs to know, is usually right there looking them dead in the face. Regardless to not having concrete evidence. However, if more people accepted the naked truth facts around them, we would be a lot better off. If something, looks like a duck, quacks like a duck, smell like a duck, then by all means stop all the analysis and just accept it is a DUCK! If your significant other displays any of the following reg flags you may want to accept the duck status for sure!!!
1. Indifferent towards you
2. Inattentive to your needs and wants
3. Working late unexpectedly or all the time
4. Showers as soon as they hit the door
5. Never want to spend quality time together
6. Refuses to communicate with you
7. Has become a stranger in the house
8. No connection intimately or concern for your satisfaction
9. Unsupportive of your dreams
10. Negative towards your goals & vision for your life
11. Have become a complete liability
12. A sudden change in their physical appearance, dress and demeanor.
13. Excessive talking on the cell or texting frequently
14. Obsession with their personal computer or laptop
15. An absolute change in attitude and perspective.
16. Wear cologne or perfume all of a sudden
17. Never affirm their significant other or compliment them
18. Take, Take, Take & Never Give!!!
19. Unexplained STD
20. No morals, discipline or integrity!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Enough said already 🙂
Pink Elephant Police,
Your comments are absolutely true! Great tips to look out for.
Ann